Giving a piece of gemstone jewellery to mark important wedding anniversaries can be a wonderful way to celebrate. Each wedding anniversary is celebrated with a different gemstone all of which are listed below.
Giving particular gifts on wedding anniversaries is thought to have originated in Central Europe. In medieval Germany, friends customarily presented a wife with a wreath of silver on her 25th wedding anniversary, the silver representing the harmony that had been necessary to last so long. Similarly, after fifty years the wife was presented with a golden wreath. Thus the silver wedding and golden wedding arose, and this has been elaborated upon in modern times – in 1922, Mrs. Emily Post, a well-known author on the subject of modern etiquette, wrote about eight anniversaries that required traditional gifts. There are records from 1800 that show the modern list has expanded to include the first fifteen years, and every five years after that. In some European countries, a copper wreath is used to celebrate twelve and a half years of marriage.
Oddly, there are two Diamond Anniversaries – one at 60 years and the other at 75. The 75th is the original diamond anniversary, and the 60th was added when Queen Victoria celebrated her Diamond Jubilee on the 60th anniversary of accession to the throne in 1897.
Over time, the tradition of celebrating anniversaries and of giving traditional gifts has developed a list of metals and stones, usually found in the form of fine jewellery, that represent the strength and commitment of the relationship with their durability and beauty.
Anniversary Gemstones and Traditional Gifts
1st Anniversary
Gemstone Fresh Water Pearls
Flowers Pansies
2nd Anniversary
Gemstone Rose Quartz and Garnet
Fowers Cosmos.
3rd Anniversary
Gemstone Crystal
Flowers Fuchsia
4th Anniversary
Gemstone Amethyst and Topaz
Flowers Geranium
5th Anniversary
Gemstone Turquoise
Flowers Daisies
6th Anniversary
6th Anniversary
Gemstone Amethyst and Garnet
Flowers Canna lilies.
7th Anniversary
7th Anniversary
Gemstone Lapis Lazuli and Onyx
Flowers Jack-in-the-pulpit.
8th Anniversary
8th Anniversary
Gemstone Aventurine and Multi-coloured Tourmaline
Flowers Clematis
9th Anniversary
9th Anniversary
Gemstone Lapis Lazuli and Tiger Eye
Flowers Poppies
10th Anniversary
Gemstone Black Onyx
Flowers Daffodils
11th Anniversary
11th Anniversary
Gemstone Hematite and Turquoise
Flowers Morning Glories
12th Anniversary
12th Anniversary
Gemstone Agate
Flowers Peonies
13th Anniversary
Gemstone Citrine, Malachite and Moonstone
Flowers Hollyhock
14th Anniversary
Gemstone Moss Agate
Gemstone Moss Agate
Flowers Dahlia
15th Anniversary
Gemstones Crystal
Flowers Roses
20th Anniversary
20th Anniversary
Gemstone Emerald
Flowers Day Lily
25th Anniversary - The Silver Wedding
25th Anniversary - The Silver Wedding
Traditional and modern wedding anniversary gifts have a theme of Silver.
The flowers associated with the 25th anniversary are Iris
The flowers associated with the 25th anniversary are Iris
30th Anniversary - The Pearl Anniversary
A contemporary or modern 30th anniversary gift has a theme of Pearls.
The flowers associated with the 30th anniversary are Sweet pea
A contemporary or modern 30th anniversary gift has a theme of Pearls.
The flowers associated with the 30th anniversary are Sweet pea
35th Anniversary
Traditional 35th wedding anniversary gifts have a theme of Coral. or Jade
This Wedding Anniversary does not have any Flowers associated with it.
This Wedding Anniversary does not have any Flowers associated with it.
40th Anniversary - The Ruby Wedding
Gemstone Ruby
flowers Nasturtium
flowers Nasturtium
45th Anniversary.
Gemstone Sapphire and Alexandrite
There are no flowers associated with the 45th anniversary
50th Anniversary - The Golden Wedding
Traditional and Modern 50th wedding anniversary gifts have a theme of Gold.
The flowers associated with the 50th anniversary are Violets
This Anniversary does not have any Gemstones associated with it.
The flowers associated with the 50th anniversary are Violets
This Anniversary does not have any Gemstones associated with it.
60th Anniversary The Diamond Wedding
Traditional and Modern 60th wedding anniversary gifts have a theme of Diamonds.
This Wedding Anniversary does not have any Flowers associated with it.
This Wedding Anniversary does not have any Flowers associated with it.
70th Anniversary
Traditional 70th wedding anniversary gifts have a theme of Diamonds and Platinum.
This Wedding Anniversary does not have any Flowers associated with it.
This Wedding Anniversary does not have any Flowers associated with it.
This Anniversary does not have any Gemstones associated with it.
75th Anniversary
A contemporary or modern 75th anniversary gift has a theme of Diamonds.
This Wedding Anniversary does not have any Flowers associated with it.
This Anniversary does not have any Gemstones associated with it.

